Long story, I'll try to condense. Aunt and uncle never had kids, small farm, live simply, have enough money to live on, still own their land. Always were very private. Uncle always disliked kids and basically hates everybody. Figures everyone is ripping him off. In ther 80's. They can still drive and take care of themselves. Their farm renter and neighbor called me and is worried. My uncle is even more irrational. Thinks just because the farmer sprayed the crops while they were gone that he 's spraying his garden and killing it. He hides behind his sunflowers and spies on the farmer accross the road (his renter). This farmer is a lifelong neighbor and family friend-(or was). Several years ago stuff went missing from uncle barn and I suspect local kids. Uncle thinks the farmers parnter is "stealing everyhting and coming over with a hand sprayer and spraying his tomatoes". and on and on. Now he told the neighbor he's "gonna get that guy before I die". Neighbor/farmer is afraid he might shoot at the partner. I'm the administrator of the estate but thats all. I have to be REAL careful what I say because he hates kids and to him I'm still a kid. My mom always made sure we were nice to them and rightly so, they are family but I don't know what to do.