Jim@concordfarms.
Member
I'd like to hear from any of you on how to deal with my Dad, who's 83. He's in fine physical health, but he's getting so mentally strange I don't know what to do.
He complains constantly. Politics, religion, race, you name it. He makes very inappropriate comments in public places like restaurants, where he may say things like: "wonder if those 2 women are lesbians", or maybe a comment about oriental people, or Blacks. (Yes, he uses the "N" word.)
Thing is, he's just gotten like this in the past 3 years. Used to always be a real sweet guy. Now I can't do anything to please him. I need to paint my barn, I need to fix my fence, my cows look like they're eating too much, I look like I'm eating too much, Why didn't I mow my yard yesterday, etc.
Is this the onset of alzheimers or is it just old age. Help!
He complains constantly. Politics, religion, race, you name it. He makes very inappropriate comments in public places like restaurants, where he may say things like: "wonder if those 2 women are lesbians", or maybe a comment about oriental people, or Blacks. (Yes, he uses the "N" word.)
Thing is, he's just gotten like this in the past 3 years. Used to always be a real sweet guy. Now I can't do anything to please him. I need to paint my barn, I need to fix my fence, my cows look like they're eating too much, I look like I'm eating too much, Why didn't I mow my yard yesterday, etc.
Is this the onset of alzheimers or is it just old age. Help!