Posted by steve sewell on August 11, 2008 at 22:06:00 from (204.210.255.195):
In Reply to: Dave D's post posted by Pete76NY on August 10, 2008 at 10:38:29:
Dave: May the Lord be with you and your family. I also lost my 15 yo son 2 1/2 years ago. Some words of advise from some one who has "been there - done that". DON"T BLAME!! youself, you wife, doctors, his friends, and ect. The Lord called him home. DON"T go into a shell. With work or drink. DO love and talk to your wife a family a lot. DO talk to your pastor, open the bible if you wish. DO enbrace your friends as they are trying to help DON"t get in a hurry to get rid of his stuff - but DON"T leave it there for ever. I also posted on other forms, as you did here, at the time of my son"s death. It and the replies help a lot. Two things were replied that I found to be true. You will not like either. 1) The pain doesn"t go away. But you learn to deal with it. 2) Life is for the living. Move on , slow down, and smell the roses. At the time I thought both were harsh and not very helpful. 2 and 1/2 years later I know they were on target and very helpful. My e-mail is open if you wish to talk. It is a hard road to walk, but with friends, loved ones and the Lord we can.
- Steve
Steve Sewell Albany, Ohio USA sewell@ohio.edu sewell@atis.net
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