I'l be brief. Aunt and Uncle with no children appoint me and brother admin of trust 20 yrs ago. I was not as smart then and neither of us have copies. They are very simple country folks and private people and trust nearly no one. Age and health is just about at the tipping point (90). If I do too much asking I may get the ole "not dead yet and he wants our money" blast. I don't even know their bank or lawyer' name. Bro asked and they say we'll think about it, etc. Uncle is paranoid and thinks everyone is stealing his stuff and aunt kinda has to go along with him. I was able to gradually take over my folks affairs so I know what should be done but I am not sure what my rights are in this case. I need POA for them in actuality. There are a few "shirt tail" relatives coming out of the woodwork now that the end is near and they know they have some money and land.