my son who will be 21 in august,found beer,got a underage about 3 months ago.he and his gf lived with me till fri night,she refuses to get out of bed,shes 20 also,she lays in bed all day everyday.he was the nicest,most helpful young man a father could ask for,until he found beer.he flatout aint going to help me do anything,period,partying consumes his weekends now,he does still have a vewry good job but I expect that to end soon.well I finally thru them out fri night,being drunk peeing all over the place was the last straw,i wonder what happened to my little buddy,my best friend.my health was getting better,i was looking forward to going pulling all summer,but beer ended that.ya know ive turned back cancer 3 times,live with diabetes that"s bad,really bad,but I think whats gonna do me in is a broken heart.....