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Jay (ND)

05-12-2005 13:53:39




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My 9 year old dog quit eating a week or so ago, was normal up until then. We brought him in, the vet put an IV in him for two days and he started to eat (sorta) again. He was still pretty good except for not eating. Yesterday afternoon the vet called and said his blood came back, cancer. This morning he looked weaker, but relatively normal. He's been sliding all day. Right now he can't hardly lift his head. This evening after everyone has said their good byes, he will be relieved of his pain. Some things you just have to do.

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BBx

05-13-2005 12:21:57




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
Jay - You have my sympathy also. We lost our dog of 16 years last Sept. Don't know how you "relieved the pain" but everyone should consider this. When we knew there was no hope, the vet said to bring her in after the last appointment of the day. The vet gave her a sedative to relax her. Then as my wife held her, the vet inserted the needle. My wife cried. I cried. The vet cried. Her assistant cried. But it was all so peaceful. We never even knew when she quit breathing. Then the vet wrapped her for us to take home and bury her. As we started to leave and asked how much, the vet said no charge.

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Joe Evans

05-13-2005 09:55:36




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
Jay, I feel for you. I've gone through this before more times than I care to mention. The last one in September was the toughest. Aja, our Golden Retriever and my daughter's 5-year 4-H competition mate succumbed to cancer. She was really my dog (If only I was half the man my dog thought I was...). It's not easy; never is, but it's right thing to do...for THEM.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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Aberdale Farm

05-12-2005 19:24:36




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
Jay,
I can remember the first dog that I had to put down due to cancer. Even after 14 years I still remember it tearfully. It is the right thing to do though, instead of making them suffer.

I have four dogs right now. I figure I'll be going through it again in a few years. They all are the best companions you could ask for, and usually make me laugh or smile each day with their antics and devotion.

I'll be thinking of you and your companion. Here's wishing the best for both of you.

Dale

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Jim.UT

05-12-2005 19:10:43




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
We went through it twice last winter. First the 10 year old dog went blind almost overnight. She still seemed healthy other than that and still had the 6 year old dog to keep her company. Then the 6 year old dog quit eating. Vet did a blood test and said her kidneys had totally shut down. So we said good-bye to her on Christmas Eve. Thirty days later the older, blind dog took a turn for the worse and we had to say good-bye to her, too. Now it's sure lonely when I go in the back yard and they're not there to say hi.

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thejdman01

05-12-2005 17:40:37




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
very tough very sorry to hear. had a dog once same case as yours exact same called back with lab work said cancer. he was a thome they wanted me to bring him back and put him odwn i said hes at home now where hes confortable not in some strange place(vet office) i said is he in any pain they said no his liver will stop working and he'll fade out. gave the dog kentucky fried chicken as sort of his last meal as the dog loved kfc. after that meal dog started eating well and gave us 9 more months before passed. the vet said bring him back in put him down and he wouldnt make it through the weekend. makes me wonder if he really did have cancer. he was a 14 year old dog dont know what he died from.

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wdtom

05-12-2005 17:38:43




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
I knkow it is a tough thing. Had to do it a few years back to the best husky/shepard mix you ever saw. Never cry, but I did that day. However, your dog would have understood and wanted you to do it if they could. May we all go quick and painlessly as your dog did when it is our time. Hang in there.



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Midwest redneck

05-12-2005 16:53:39




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
Yeah loosing a dog is tough, but the toughest thing of all is burying your children...that is super hard, I had to do it 5 years ago with a baby boy and a very good friend of mine had to do it last year with her 22 year old son.....absolutely crushing in mind..body.. and spirit. The Lord always lets us know that we are dependent on Him.



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TimS

05-13-2005 08:02:25




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Midwest redneck, 05-12-2005 16:53:39  
Midwest redneck, you have my deepest sympathies. We are blessed with an almost 4 month old baby girl, and I can't even imagine the pain if we lost her.

I don't get that attached to animals anymore, people ( family and friends ) are what matter to me and what I worry over.

Don't get me wrong, I take good care of our animals.

I'm not sure why this has changed, but I think the 7 months in Baghdad have a lot to do with it.

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Jay (ND)

05-12-2005 16:55:02




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Midwest redneck, 05-12-2005 16:53:39  
I'm so sorry. I did earlier remind my wife to keep it in perspective.



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Midwest redneck

05-13-2005 15:43:51




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 16:55:02  
Just to fill you in on my boy, my wife was 6 months pregnant and she had a placental abrubtion, the placenta pulled away from the uterine wall and the baby died just a minute or two from being born. This child was supposed to be my first and my wifes first. After the small funeral and the shock of this my wife wanted to get pregnant right away, and of course I was willing and ready....ha ha ha. Right now I have a healthy and energetic 4 year old boy who I would take a bullet for. I appreciate him more because of the loss of my first. The woman I work with had a son, 22 years old, who had a 1.5 year old baby girl and his girlfriend left him for some other guy. Well he got real depressed and committed suicide, at least I am pretty sure of that, I didnt ask her how he died, he is dead and no matter how he died he is gone. Now to fill you in on his mother, I have worked with her for 7 years at my place of employment and she is the kindest, sweetest, most loving woman I have ever known and she sure as *ell doesnt deserve the loss of her son, and the final pain in the arse.... her sons old girlfriend is giving her *ell about being able to see her little granddaugther. She sees the baby about 3-5 times per year. She may have to go to court to get visitation rights to see her baby granddaughter. Life can be real hard for the nicest people..... ..

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Hurst

05-12-2005 16:42:01




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
I won't forget my experience about 2 years ago this summer. My favorite dog, Mickey (had a bunch of old nick names for the man like mickey moo-mow). He was my buddy and a shoulder to lean on when times were hard. Remember when my mom left my dad, I was there with him, we not sat under that tree in the front yard together. Lost him to cancer 2 years ago. He went in for surgery, first one came out ok, then the tumor came back, went in for surgery again, liver failed through the night. I remember that morning before my dad took him in and I was getting on the bus, gave him a kiss on his wet nose and told him I would see him later, but never did. He was supposed to come home the next morning, but they wanted to keep him for another day. The night before he was supposed to come home, the vet tried to call, but she never got through. She was trying to tell us to come and see our Mickey that night because she was afraid he wouldn't make it through the night. Never got that phone call until the next morning when my dad checked his voice mail. Called her back and she told us that he had gone to a better place. Boy, how I miss the old man. The one thing that keeps me going is the good memories I had with him and all the other 3 dogs we have. No dog will ever replace a boys first dog, but just remember, he will be going to a better place. You will think you are not doing what is best, but what you are doing is the best thing avalible for the old man. Hope you get through your struggle, it's a tough one, but just say your prayers to him and your old buddy will hear them.

Hurst

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David A. Hodson

05-12-2005 16:02:46




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
We lost a Siberian Husky male to cancer years back, vet wasn't smart enough to know it was cancer until after the fact so we didn't get to say good bye. its still hard 'cause we do get so attached to our loved ones animals or not. LOL David



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37 chief

05-12-2005 15:58:21




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
You are doing the right thing, I know it's hard. We sure get attached to these critters. I have said many good bye's to my favorite cat's and dogs. I know what you are going through. Stan



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RustyFarmall

05-12-2005 14:14:26




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 13:53:39  
It's gonna be tough, but you are doing the right thing.



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Harley

05-12-2005 16:36:33




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to RustyFarmall, 05-12-2005 14:14:26  
Yep. Not to make light of this situation, but when my ex left, the Harley I had at that time left too, and man, I miss that bike. Harley



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Jay (ND)

05-12-2005 16:48:36




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Harley, 05-12-2005 16:36:33  
That is funny - maybe not to you, but it is.

I appreciate everyones support. I've done this before, it's never easy. But it's always easier than taking them to a vet that don't give them a big enough shot and then watching them whimper for 20 minutes - have had that happen - I vowed never again.

My Mrs knows it has to be done tonight, but is having a very hard time. One of my daughters is having a hard time too. It has to be done. I hope they are strong enough to let me do it tonight.

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Mke (WA)

05-13-2005 10:58:24




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 16:48:36  
I had about the best neighbor a guy could have some years back- our old Cocker was getting worse and worse- could hardly get around- I was putting off the inevitable. Neighbor came over when he found out we were taking the kids to Disneyland for a week, and asked if we wanted to come home to be informed that the dog had passed away, with the grave out in the trees, and a little cross on it. It was a great way to solve the problem, and we've always had a soft spot for him because of it.

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TimS

05-13-2005 08:04:24




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to Jay (ND), 05-12-2005 16:48:36  
Oh, I forgot to mention, Jay you also have my sympathies.

If you are planning to put the dog down with a well placed gunshot, you might send the wife and kids for a drive so at least they don't have to hear it happen. You can get him taken care of and they can come home to a done deal, buried and all.

Just a thought.



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Stickler

05-14-2005 16:33:48




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 Re: Some of the toughest things in reply to TimS, 05-13-2005 08:04:24  
I shot my own lab last winter when he could no longer walk due to hip dysplasia. Hardest thing I ever did. But..... it was over in a heartbeat and he didn't suffer. I've been through the too samll a dose thing too, and I feel the same way as you do. My wife and kids were in the house, but they heard the shot. Next time they'll go somewhere for a drive.



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