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Pray to God the kid is healthy and OK and has an easy birth, for the kid, as well as Mom! The boy or girl thing will work out. We had 4 boys. One suffered a severe injury from a difficult birth, and died just before his 18TH birthday, after constant care all those years. The next boy had a 1-in-10,000 congenital heart defect, resulting in several heart surgeries, and a lifetime of monitoring and the possibility of a heart transplant in the future. Sure makes worrying if it is a boy or girl TRIVIAL! The last 2 boys are healthy and normal (more or less). Incidently, each time the ultrasound folks and the Doc wanted to tell us the baby's s e x before birth, and we declined, letting it be a surprise! Sorry for being so blunt, but MAKING, HAVING, and RAISING kids is NOT the trivial matter some folks make it out to be, and it doesn't ALWAYS turn out the way you want! Furthermore, if it's a girl, think how much fun you will have in 15 or so years tormenting potential suitors that "come calling"!
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